Monday, 21 January 2013

Jan 21, 2013                                                                                                                                         Sage Watson




My Bench

1:
The bench that I chose for my assignment is at the boulevard park, right next to the big soccer field. I chose this bench because it sticks out; you notice it sitting there, all by itself with nothing around except the walkway leading up to it. As I walked up to the bench I noticed it had a plate, and on that plate it read: “we played, walked & joked together, your friends”. As I examined the bench it seemed quite old, maybe around 15 years. I noticed little spots of rust on the arm rests and around the plate where the writing was. The wood had rotten in some parts but still maintained its structure and stood tall and strong. The was one of those six-pack plastic ring holders stuck onto one of the arm rests, and a little bit of graffiti on the other metal arm rest. I was careful of where I sat on the bench because I noticed that there was some bird poo on the back rest as well as on the base, I eagerly avoided that!

2:









As I sat down on the bench it was hard, and very cold. But as I continued to sit there and let my butt warm up the spot I was sitting on, it felt like I was melting into the bench, and I was becoming one with it. As odd as it sounds, it felt like I was becoming connected to the people that had dedicated the bench. I could feel the words on the plate, and could relate to them with my own experiences with my friends. I continued to sit there, thinking about my friends and all the good times I have had with them. I was soaking in all of these feelings from the bench, when all of a sudden the outside world turned on, and I started to become aware of my surroundings. As I looked straight ahead at the vast open field, I noticed only one single crow, in what seemed like an ocean of green grass, pecking for worms or possibly seeds. The grass was frosty and crunchy when I walked over it; I could see my trail of footsteps leading up to the bench from the frosty grass. From where I sat I had a perfect view of all the mountains; Grouse, Seymour, and Cypress. The tips of their rounded lush tops, covered in a dusting of snow. Like when you take icing sugar and sift it over top of your pancakes; all three of the mountains, standing tall looking over all of Vancouver, like guardians. Then my eyes were drawn to the lions, the two tops looking rigid, fully covered in snow, as if a white blanket had been drooped over them. My eyes have been distracted this whole time, while my hearing had been off listening to the wonderful sounds of birds chirping. I noticed a constant banging, but was simply someone playing racquetball against the wooden wall at the playground. I heard the cars, as they drove to and from their destinations, the loud engine of a truck as it geared down and came to a stop with the hissing of its air brakes. I could hear the wind as it passed through my hair and made a blowing noise in my ears. I looked up and saw the long, slightly curved Jet stream from a plane souring high in the sky. Wondering to myself how it’s possible to put people tens of thousands of feet in the air, and still call it the safest way to travel. I looked to my right and gazed up at our beautiful Canadian flag, as it lazily flapped in the soft calm wind, thinking to myself, I was in the right place. I then looked down at my feet and noticed all the ground directly in front of the bench had been worn down to dirt. What only I can guess is from so many people sitting like I was then, enjoying the lovely atmosphere of this bench, and all that was surrounding it. I thought to myself, only if more people could take the time and enjoy what I had just experienced things in this world would be simpler, and people would realize that the world is more colorful,  if you just take the time to view it. I want people to experience this, because I believe that we are all caught up in our day to day lives that we often forget to enjoy the little things; like the sounds of the birds, the taste of the fresh spring time air, and the beautiful sights that surrounded me, a whole three hundred and sixty degrees. And for that short time, I had found peace.


3:
If a bench were dedicated to me for any reason, be it that I passed away or it was simply just a gift, I would want it to be placed somewhere away from civilization. Somewhere alone, where it could sit and not be vandalized by people, but still remain where a passerby or a tired jogger could sit on it and take  short break, and soak in the surroundings like I did with the bench I sat on. Somewhere like on the side of a trail, in a forest, or on the edge of a lake, sitting and waiting to have someone sit on it. I find it difficult to think of something to say on the plate, because most of the time these benches are donated to someone, and that person that donates it, picks what to say on the plate. But if I had to say something (assuming I was dead) it would be something along the lines of: “loved life, lived life, every second of it”.


4:
If I was to dedicate a bench it would be similar what I said in chapter 3. It would be placed somewhere unique, where people would only see it if they looked for it. I believe in my mind this is more special than just placing a bench in a park, or on the edge of the seawall or something like that. Say for example, you’re walking through a park, and you encounter a bench, you think to yourself “oh this is just another bench I have found, just like that past five I have seen”. But if you’re walking somewhere, some place that normally not a lot of people walk, somewhere that is less populated, and you discover a bench, I think that that would be more special and unique than just encountering another bench in a park, or along a seawall or beach. If I was to have an inscription on the bench it would say something like: “Never forget about the paths in life you desire”. What I mean by this is, never forget you dreams and goals in life, and don’t give up on yourself.






5 (Journal response):



Today I had to find and pick a bench for an English project. Once I had picked the right bench I had to sit on it, and think about things like how I felt, what I thought, and also what I saw, and experienced while sitting there. So I thought it would be a good idea to head up to the boulevard park because I had saw a couple benches there before and thought that that would be a good place to start. It was a cold, crisp but sunny day. The birds were chirping and as I walked out my front door I felt as if spring was coming early. As I arrived at the park, and walked up the grassy hill, I saw the perfect bench. It was at one end of the field, sitting all by itself facing me. It looked awfully lonely there so I thought that this would be the bench that I would choose. As I walked up and sat down on it, I felt like it was the right choice for me. The cool crisp air was blowing through my hair, and I could smell spring time. The grass was slightly frosty, and the bench was really cold on my butt. As I looked around and took in all of the things going on around me, (as odd as it sounds) I felt like I had become connected to the bench, through the writing on the plate that read: “we played, walked & joked together, your friends”. This writing seemed like something I would say on a bench plate, if I was donating one, so in a way I related to it. I continued to sit there and absorb all of the things that were happening all around me, and after about ten minutes my feet started to get cold and my butt was definitely frozen. So I packed up and rode away on my skateboard, feeling good about what I had just experienced! And I was also very confident that I knew what I was going to write about in my response.             



 6 (poem):
True Friend by: Clara Odelia Ciutara

Friend gives you smile
But true friend gives you happiness
Friend will lie about you
But true friend won’t tell your weakness
Friend knives your back
But true friend will slog your face
Thousands friends come when you’re happy
But only one true friend comes when you cry
Friend comes when he needs you
But true friend comes when you need him
Friend leaves when everybody does
But true friend comes when everybody leaves
Friend comes and leaves
But true friend is yours forever


I picked this poem because in a way it related to the plate on the bench I chose. The plate on the bench referred to friends as being funny, joking, always there for each other, at least that’s the way I saw it. This poem is exactly how I would describe the perfect friendship, and I see it as the perfect way to describe my friendship with my best friend, Luciano.




7:
My philosophy of life is that one should live life to the fullest, live every day as if it was your last, and always have good friends in your life. Have friends that push you towards success, friends that give you happiness, and are always there for you when you need them, and vice-versa. My poem relates to my philosophy of life in that having a best friend is one of the most important things. It’s a special relationship between two or more people that only they can share. A connection that draws each other closer together, and makes them cherish that special energy they share. I believe that if someone has lost everything in life and has nowhere to go, if they are lost and have given up and don’t know where to go, all they need is a best friend...If they have a best friend, then all is not lost.




 8:



The purpose of a park. I believe the purpose of a park is to bring people together, as a meeting place for people to share good times and enjoy nature. A park can be the host of soccer game, or a place to let the wind carry your kite as high as possible. A park can be big or small, long or wide, and has room for everyone. It is a place to lie on your back beside someone special, and gaze at the stars in the night sky. It’s somewhere peaceful, a place where no piece of ugly machinery or a monstrous building can invade, a paradise if you please. It’s a place where you can get lost, and find yourself again. A park is somewhere to release all negative feelings and tensions, and to breathe in the healing crisp air. But most importantly I think a park is for getting away, a place for some thinking room, somewhere to sit, and ponder of why you are there.



9:

My bench

My bench is cold, very cold
It sits by itself, all alone
Like a lost soul searching for a companion
But when I rest my bottom upon its hard surface
Like flipping on a switch
I feel connected to this bench
It takes me places, places I would not have thought of
I show’s me my surroundings, unlike how I would have seen them before
Like a ride, travelling through the park
Yet we do not move
We stay, not moving a smidge
And as easily as I started this ride
I get off
And once again, it’s a lost soul
Searching for a companion